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Can I Be the Trustee of My Living Trust?

December 10, 2025Asset Protection, Estate Planning

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James spread a pile of mail across his kitchen table.

Credit card offers. Utility bills. A flyer from Collins Law Group about wills, living trusts, and asset protection.

He stared at the word “trust” and felt his shoulders tense.

“I’m not ready for anybody to tell me what to do with my money,” he said out loud, even though he sat alone.

James spent more than thirty years working at LAX. He bought his home near Manchester, raised his kids there, survived job changes and recessions, and kept the lights on through every bump. The idea of a “trust” sounded like something rich people in Brentwood used—and something that forced him to hand his power to someone else.

Then he read one line in the flyer that stopped him:

“You can serve as the trustee of your own living trust and stay in full control while you’re healthy.”

For the first time, he felt curious instead of defensive.

That one idea, you create the trust and you stay in charge—sits at the heart of modern estate planning for families in Inglewood, Culver City, and across Los Angeles. Collins Law Group centers that message in their

In-Person Wills, Living Trusts & Asset Protection Seminar on January 7, 2026, and they invite local families to hear it directly, face to face:

LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE: REGISTER HERE: 
https://collinslawgroup.com/webinar/in-person-seminar-wills-living-trusts-asset-protection-january-2026/

A living trust that keeps you behind the wheel

A living trust doesn’t lock up your money. You use it to wrap a clear structure around what you already own.

You create the trust.
You move your assets into it.
You name yourself as trustee.

You still swipe your card at Ralphs. You still decide when to refinance the house, help a grandchild with books at West L.A. College, or replace the roof. You sign the checks. You choose the investments. You direct every major move.

Because you use a revocable living trust, you keep the right to change it. You add new accounts, remove old ones, adjust who receives what, even tear it up and start over if life changes.

Nothing in that structure turns you into a bystander. You stay the driver.

LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE: REGISTER HERE: 
https://collinslawgroup.com/webinar/in-person-seminar-wills-living-trusts-asset-protection-january-2026/

The bad day that tests your plan

James didn’t fear the paperwork. He feared the bad day.

He remembered a co-worker who never came back after a stroke. He remembered an aunt who slowly stopped paying bills on time because memory slipped. He imagined his own kids scrambling if that kind of day arrived for him.

Without a plan, that day hits hard. Adult children suddenly try to log in to accounts they don’t own. They argue over who should “take charge.” They march into court downtown to ask a judge for permission just to pay the mortgage or property taxes.

Probate and conservatorship chew up time, money, and peace of mind.

A living trust rewrites that moment.

When you create the trust, you name a successor trustee—someone you trust. You write a clear roadmap. If a stroke, accident, or memory loss knocks you out of the driver’s seat, that person steps in and follows your instructions. The mortgage gets paid. Insurance stays in force. Scammers face a hard “no.” Your family avoids a public court battle.

You still hold the power while you stay healthy. Your plan quietly waits in the background and protects your family when you no longer can.

Collins Law Group walks through real-world scenarios; Inglewood elders, blended families, widows, long-time homeowners—and shows precisely how a successor trustee steps in without chaos and without a judge calling the shots:

LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE: REGISTER HERE
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Choosing the right person after you

James carried another fear: “What if my kids fight?”

He loved all three. His oldest daughter lived closest and already helped him with online banking. His son understood investments and liked numbers. His youngest cared deeply but already juggled work and small children.

He didn’t want to spark jealousy or tension. He also refused to shrug and say, “They’ll figure it out,” because he’d seen too many families fall apart after a death.

During a consultation, the attorney asked him practical questions:

Who stays calm under pressure?
Who follows directions instead of improvising?
Who works well with siblings and respects boundaries?

James thought about those questions for a week. Then he named his oldest daughter as his first successor trustee and his son as backup. He told both of them why. He explained that the role carried responsibility, not favoritism.

That conversation felt awkward for five minutes, then incredibly freeing.

Families across Inglewood grapple with the same decision. A seminar room full of neighbors often helps. People hear each other’s questions. They realize they don’t stand alone. The Collins Law Group team offers frameworks, red flags, and options—including professional trustee choices—so you don’t guess in the dark.

You can sit in that room on January 7th and walk out with a much clearer sense of who should hold the keys after you:

LIMITED SEATS AVAILABLE: REGISTER HERE
https://collinslawgroup.com/webinar/in-person-seminar-wills-living-trusts-asset-protection-january-2026/

The cost of waiting for “later”

James originally told himself, “I’ll deal with this next year.”

So do a lot of people in Inglewood.

They keep every asset in their own name.
They never sign a trust.
They never name a successor.

Then a fall leads to a rehab stay. A heart attack leads to a hospital stay. Confusion creeps in. Bills stack up. Property taxes slip past the due date. A reverse mortgage statement arrives with bold print that nobody understands.

Now the family reacts instead of leads.

They stand in lines. They argue in group texts. They sit in courtrooms while strangers in black robes make decisions about the home and money that someone worked a lifetime to earn.

Estate planning doesn’t hand your life to someone else. It protects your life’s work from that scenario.

If you live anywhere in or around Inglewood and you feel the same knot in your stomach when you think about the future—your house, your accounts, your kids—use one evening in January to unpack it with people who do this every day.

On Wednesday, January 7, 2026, Collins Law Group will host their first In-Person Wills, Living Trusts & Asset Protection Seminar of the year. The team will show you how to keep control today and protect your family tomorrow with a living trust that still answers to you.

You can reserve your seat here, before the room fills and the opportunity slips to “later” again:
https://collinslawgroup.com/webinar/in-person-seminar-wills-living-trusts-asset-protection-january-2026/

Your name stands on the deed. Your hands still hold the steering wheel. Your living trust simply makes sure the people you love can keep moving forward when you no longer drive.

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Attorney Caprice L. Collins is a top rated Harvard Law School graduate. She has 34 years of legal experience with a successful law practice devoted exclusively to Estate/Business Planning and Trust Administration. Attorney Collins is a well-respected keynote speaker on Wills, Living Trusts, Estate Planning, Business Planning and Trust Administration. She has appeared on California’s Real Estate Radio Station KTLK AM 1150 as a legal expert on Estate Planning and Living Trusts among many other notable media appearances Read More!
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“My mother told me about the Collins Law Group and I must say, the entire experience has been a real pleasure. Although I was nervous at first, the Collins Law Group staff put me at ease with their friendliness and knowledge. I didn’t realize how hard it could be on your family and loved ones left behind if you die without any planning or directions in place for them. My biggest concern was making sure my elderly mother would be provided for and taken care of if something happened to me. I have been a caregiver for her for 12 years, so this planning was crucially important. I had previously made a living trust for myself on Legal Zoom but there is no comparison to the level of service and professionalism that Collins Law Group embodies. Attorney Collins and her staff provides excellent service and it will take a large burden off of my family when they need guidance at the time of my passing.”

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